Never surrender your wonderfulness to the situations happening around you!

On a good day we know who we are. We fell calm, balanced, together. Functioning well and handling life like we’re “supposed” to, like a “grown up”. The sun is shining and we’re in a good mood!

And then….. that one thing happens, someone does or says something, we hit another car when parking, the kids explode the ketchup bottle, we check our bank balance and its not what we thought, we get an unexpected bill, a family member or friend tells us their ill, we drop the dinner on the floor when we’re already hangry, our friend cancels our game of golf, we’ve forgotten to do something and the deadline is tomorrow, a customer is late putting your whole day behind……

How do we let these things effect us? Change our mood, our dynamic of the day, even bring out our worst most extreme reactions making us snap. Loose our control. Loose our sense of self, our balance, our wellbeing.

Each of us are wonderful in our own way, trying not to surrender our wonderfulness to the situations happening around us is the ultimate goal. The ultimate utopia to staying at peace with ourselves.

Not allowing other peoples craziness, lack of perspective, other people’s actions effect our wonderfulness is a skill. Like all skills it can be practiced, worked on and fine tuned.

What are you going to work on today, is there anything better than working on yourself?